Are you wondering how to start dating again
at 40+, 50+, 60+ or even 70+?
Maybe you're feeling lost after a long-term relationship has ended, or you’re questioning “is my relationship right for me?”
You’re not alone.
Dating in midlife is different to dating in your twenties, but with the right mindset and approach, it can also be empowering, exciting and even fun.
I’m Lindsey, your Dating & Relationship Coach for midlife and beyond—and before this, I worked as a Matchmaker.
I’ve spent years helping people to find love and build great relationships and the first step on that journey is always to strengthen the relationship they have with themselves.
As a matchmaker, I saw first-hand what makes relationships thrive—and what holds people back. Now, instead of just introducing people, I help women like you to build the confidence, clarity and mindset to attract the right kind of relationship.
I'm based in London but I work with clients online, so no matter where you are, we can connect.
Fresh air brings a fresh perspective, so if you're local to Waltham Forest or Central London, we can meet for a walk & talk coaching session in one of our beautiful green spaces such as Hyde Park, Green Park, Regent's Park, Victoria Park, Hampstead Heath, Lloyd Park or The Highams Park.
Women in their 40s and beyond who are:
🧡Returning to dating after a long term relationship
🧡Terrified at the thought of "putting themselves out there"
🧡Asking themselves, "Am I too old to find love?"
🧡Attracting the wrong men
🧡With someone, but wondering, "Should I stay or leave?"
If any of this resonates, you’ve come to the right place.
Gaining Clarity – If you’re wondering “am I ready to date?” or “is this relationship right for me?”, we’ll work together to explore your feelings, patterns and desires so you can make the best decision for your future.
Dating with Confidence – Whether you’re scared to put yourself out there, don’t know how to feel confident dating after 50, or want to break free from bad habits, I’ll help you navigate dating with clarity and self-assurance.
Red Flags & Relationship Patterns – If you’ve ever asked, “why do men ghost at this age?” or “how do I stop attracting the wrong men?” we’ll work through these common challenges so you can approach dating with a fresh perspective.
The Matchmaker’s Perspective – Having worked in the matchmaking industry, I know what truly makes a connection work. I’ll help you recognise compatibility beyond chemistry, so you stop wasting time on the wrong matches and start attracting the right ones.
Walk & Talk Sessions – If you’re based in Waltham Forest or Central London, we can take our coaching outside. Walking & talking in places like Victoria Park, Hampstead Heath, Hyde Park, Lloyd Park or The Highams Park can offer a relaxed and natural way to explore your thoughts.
✔️ You’ve been out of the dating game for years and don’t know where to start.
✔️ You feel overwhelmed by dating apps and wonder, "Which dating app is best for women over 40?"
✔️You’re afraid of making the same mistakes and getting hurt again.
✔️You’re tired of questioning your relationship and want clarity.
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
Together, we’ll create a dating or relationship approach that works for you.